Don't Make These Mistakes When Talking to Women On a Date
Avoid
Second-Guessing Her
You can think faster than you can speak. Therefore, it is tempting to
listen for a few moments and then attempt to guess what point is being
led up to. "You'll never believe what happened this morning,"
someone tells you excitedly. "I was driving to work. I looked in
my rearview mirror " - "And there was a cop pulling you over,"
you interrupt. The speaker's face falls. "Well, no. I was just going
to say that there was a guy riding in the car behind me mooning me."
It's Insulting
It is an acceptable mental exercise to try to anticipate what will be
said, but to verbalize it (second-guessing) is insulting. Even worse,
you may be wrong. It is also best to refrain from completing sentences
when she pauses to construct her words. You don't have to agree with everything
she says in order to be a good listener. Just give her time to express
herself before you add your opinion.
Listen and Reflect
Whenever you have the urge to disagree, judge or interrupt her, listen
instead and reflect on what you hear. Remember the importance of asking
a question when it is relevant, and avoid interrupting and completing
sentences. A good conversation includes ample give-and-take, but skills
are necessary and invaluable.
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