Get Rid of Wuss Behavior

"Yo man, since reading your stuff I have picked up women twice in two weeks. The first chick was hot as hell but she turned out to be a bit of a ho.

But the next chick is awesome. Really a top chick. She is easy to hold a conversation with and she's into the same stuff I'm into. I picked her up in a club I have never every done that before." -C.R.
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A couple of fundamental principles are illustrated here, so let me point them out to you:

The Principle: You can't judge a book by it's cover.

You know I often say the reason sayings like "You can't judge a book by it's cover" stick around so long, and the reason everyone has heard them thousands of times is because...

THEY'RE TRUE!!!

If I could reach out through cyberspace and put my hand on your shoulder the next time you start freaking out when you see a pretty woman, and tell you simply to frickin' calm down, I would.

But I can't. So I'm writing this letter instead.

Often the prettiest women have the most issues. Get that one straight in your own mind, right now.

And often those issues will turn your little peter southward quicker than a cold northern wind. EVEN IF the woman is physically a 10.

But even if you REALIZE this is true, the reality that is coursing through your body is nervousness and tension, because you're getting all excited just because the woman is physically hot.

And you probably will always be this way to a CERTAIN EXTENT.

Hell, we're guys, we're suppose to get excited about pretty women, right?

But there's a difference between being excited at a level 5, so that we're alert on the inside but appearing calm on the outside...and being excited at a level 10, so that we're totally freaking out on the inside, and stumbling over our words and appearing like a high school freshmen on the first day of school.

You want to be at a level 5 of excitement, not a level 10.

Which brings up another fundamental principle: The Principle of Balance.

With all principles that relate to women, and even life for that matter, the idea of Balance will take you far along the path of getting what you want, and keeping your sanity.

Some examples...

Balance your niceness with having an edge.

Balance your chivalry (opening doors, etc.) with having conversations with sexual innuendo.

Balance your desire to be totally calm with the reality that you will always be a bit more excited around really pretty women they you are around grazing cows.

Unless you're really into cows.

But I don't judge...

The other fundamental principle today's success story shows is...

YOU NEVER KNOW, UNTIL YOU GO.

In other words, you never know how cool a woman is going to be until you actually approach her, have a conversation, and express your interest.

In this case, it took C.R. only two women to find a cool one.

In all likelihood, it'll take you MANY more women. But the point here is that you'll never know who that great woman will be, until you take the initiative to meet her.

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Here's 3 simple yet powerful tips I felt inspired to share with you today. These come from the "don't even in a million years catch yourself doing any of these things on a date" category:

NUGGET OF WISDOM #1:
Don't ever ask your date, "So, how do you feel about me?"

I just watched an episode of eliminate where someone did this, and I want to make sure none of my readers are making this mistake.

It will put you in the WUSS category faster than you can imagine.

To get to the same information without becoming a wuss, one option is to simply say at the end of the date, "I'd like to see you again."

See how she responds. You'll get the answer you were looking for anyways, without driving yet another nail into your coffin of wussy behavior.

NUGGET OF WISDOM #2
After you kiss a woman, don't ever ask her how the kiss was.

Unless, of course, she was so OBVIOUSLY turned on by the kiss that you're not asking it to get reassurance, but you're actually asking it rhetorically (where you know the answer is positive).

Usually when you ask a woman how the kiss was, you are looking for reassurance. This is because you are feeling insecure. If you were feeling confident, you wouldn't have to ask, because you would already believe that the kiss was awesome.

Confidence is good, acting insecure is bad.

Got it?

By the way, most insecure behavior will fall away naturally once you're dating enough and learning from your mistakes. It takes time.

NUGGET OF WISDOM #3:
When a woman calls you on your behavior or criticizes you, fight back.

You know what strong women think of guys who don't defend themselves them they get criticized?

You got it:

WUSSIES.

So be a man. Be willing to defend yourself against the women you date. Stop cowering behind the facade of "being nice" or "being a gentlemen."

If a woman is being a bitch to you, stand up for yourself. She'll respect you more for it. And where there's respect, there's often ATTRACTION just around the corner...

So, listen man, if you're reading this , and you're ready to get all the techniques, strategies, and mindsets that will take your success with women to the next level, and make it easy for things to escalate physically in a smooth, natural sort of way as well as chuck any wuss behaviors. Click here to learn more.

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